Notebook listing different ways employees feel appreciated beside a coffee mug on an office desk, illustrating that recognition is personal and not one-size-fits-all.

She Bought Them Chocolates… But They Wanted Five Minutes of Her Time

June 28, 20262 min read

One of the biggest mistakes I see in business isn't poor bookkeeping.

It isn't poor cash flow.

It isn't even poor leadership.

It's assuming everyone feels appreciated in the same way.

I remember a director who genuinely cared about her staff.

Whenever someone worked extra hours, helped with a difficult project or went above and beyond, she'd buy chocolates, cakes or small gifts to say thank you.

Female business director presenting a box of chocolates to an employee at her desk, while the employee smiles politely, illustrating how appreciation can sometimes miss what people truly need.
Good intentions don't always make people feel appreciated. Understanding how someone feels valued is often far more important than what you give them.

She couldn't understand why people still felt undervalued.

The problem wasn't that she didn't appreciate them.

The problem was how she showed it.

One member of staff would have swapped every box of chocolates for five uninterrupted minutes with their manager.

Not to discuss work.

Just to be asked:

"How are you doing?"

Another would have loved a simple:

"I noticed what you did this week. Thank you."

Someone else would have valued being trusted to lead a project.

Another would simply have appreciated being allowed to leave early after working late all week.

The intention was right.

The delivery missed the mark.

Over the years I've realised something.

Business isn't just about understanding numbers.

It's about understanding people.

Every employee feels valued in different ways.

Every customer chooses to stay for different reasons.

Every business owner has different fears and different motivations.

When we assume everyone is motivated by the same things we are, misunderstandings begin.

As bookkeepers, consultants and business owners, we often spend hours analysing figures.

Perhaps we should spend a little more time understanding the people behind them.

Because businesses don't grow because of spreadsheets.

They grow because people feel seen.

Looking Beyond the Job Title

Whether someone works on reception, in the warehouse, out on the road or cleans the office after everyone has gone home, every person contributes to the success of the business.

When people feel invisible, performance often suffers.

When people feel genuinely valued, something changes.

They care more.

They contribute more.

They stay longer.

Sometimes the most valuable investment a business owner can make isn't another piece of equipment or another marketing campaign.

Sometimes it's simply making someone feel seen.

Because everything in business comes back to relationships.

Tell Me Your Story

Every business has a story.

Some are about growth.

Some are about survival.

Some are about difficult decisions, brilliant ideas, amazing staff or moments that nearly broke you.

Over the years I've learnt more from listening to business owners than I ever did from reading textbooks.

I'm creating a collection of real business stories to help other business owners realise they aren't alone.

If you've got a story to tell, I'd love to hear it.

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Jacquie Eaton - Business Alchymie

Jacquie Eaton - Business Alchymie

Jacquie Eaton is the founder of Business Alchymie, helping business owners who feel overwhelmed, behind, or unsure where their money is going. With years of hands-on experience in bookkeeping, payroll, and business support, she works in a calm, practical way to bring clarity to business finances — without jargon, pressure, or judgement. Because when your numbers make sense, everything else in your business becomes easier.

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